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punkwarren:

striderdaves:

i love catfish so much because they act like theyre fbi agents or something when theyre really just using reverse google image search

i thought you meant the animal and let me tell you that was a wild minute of me trying to figure out the psychology of fish thinking they’re federal law enforcement

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secretwonderful:

would you believe me if I said I’m in love?

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majiinboo:

  • Do not forget Michael Brown
  • Do not forget how the media dehumanized him and tried to justify his murder
  • Do not forget how peaceful protests were painted as savage riots
  • Do not forget police armed with military grade weapons terrorized and arrested black civilians
  • Do not forget Darren Wilson being awarded over $200,000 in fundraiser donations for murdering an unarmed black child
  • Do not forget that this system was not built to defend us, but to control us
  • Do not forget Ferguson 

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supersmashkev:

KTVA Charlo Greene just quit on live TV after revealing she was the founder of the AK Cannabis Club.

GIRL!!!!

she just quit her job thats paying her to fight for marijuana legalization?!! she better be getting paid by being a founder for that organization. because girl you need to make moneyyy. you can fight for legalization and still have a job… unless they forced her to quit..

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John Green (via creatingaquietmind)

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So often we try to make other people feel better by minimizing their pain, by telling them that it will get better (which it will) or that there are worse things in the world (which there are). But that’s not what I actually needed. What I actually needed was for someone to tell me that it hurt because it mattered. 
I have found this very useful to think about over the years, and I find that it is a lot easier and more bearable to be sad when you aren’t constantly berating yourself for being sad.

socialjusticekoolaid:

Can’t stop, won’t stop: Protesters in Ferguson rally again, seeking justice for Mike Brown. More than a month and a half after his death, his killer, Darren Wilson, is still a free man. (Pt 2) 

Because it wouldn’t be a protest in Ferguson without fuckery from the police. A driver plowed his car through protesters, grazing several and running over a young boys foot. Beyond taking several hours to transport the boy to the hospital, they took even longer to arrest the motorist. Who did they not wait long to arrest? Two of the protesters who had been documenting the altercation for the world to see. If you’re not angry, you’re not paying attention. #staywoke #farfromover #nojusticenopeace

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cisphobic:

myheartwillleadtheway
alright, ill make it VERY CLEAR. since you claim you “dont know what i did wrong!” and are “getting hate!! wah!”

To start off, you pulled a whole “Not All Cis People Are Bad!” card. Of course fucking not. but a majority of them, including you, can be pretty shitty. you…

90% of what you said is what i said to you and you shut me down for it. so idk what you want from me. you just want to make me look like an asshole. you basically said to me numerous times how much you dont want any cis people to be an ally of yours, when you are saying you have friends who are allies, you dont want me to shove words into your mouth when youre doing that to me. im not crying over cisphobia, im upset that youre a fucking asshole. you’re not a fucking asshole because youre trans, you’re literally just a fucking asshole and you have said so many things to me to make me feel like shit for no reason but that fact that you dont like that im cis. you cant change who you are, and i cant change who i am. im not transphobic in any way shape or form. i said something about your url because i didnt get why it said cisphobia and you were already being a dick to me for no reason, so i figured it was because you had a thing against cis people. and maybe you dont but you have a thing against me for being cis. i pulled the not all cis people card because you kept telling me you basically dont like any cis people because they all murder trans people. and im like well im a good person and i support trans people and everything else i said, and you just kept talking about how cis people are bad, so i assumed you just hated all cis people because you made it sound that way. im not silencing you and talking over you. im telling you im not a bad person and that you cant tell me that im not allowed to support trans people because you cant tell me how to feel. thats talking over you for being a dick for trying to tell me how i feel and trying to say you cant feel this way. i literally wrote a whole paragraph to you explaining how allies are just people who try to help trans people relay the message to the world and share their experiences. my bad, is that not what you JUST said? but im wrong because you alwayssss have to be right. this isnt a fight about you being trans, its a fight about you being a fucking asshole. i am not transphobic and i do not believe in cisphobia, but i do believe that you are an asshole who treats me like shit for no reason, and back up you being a fucking asshole by saying im a cry baby and believe in cisphobia. no i beleive in people not treating others like fucking dicks just because they are cis. did i say anything bad about trans people? i did not. so it gives you no right to shit on me for being white or cis or a lesbian. because i didnt say anything bad to you. you want to talk shit to every cis person and then when they get about you being a dick you just yell, you believe in cispobia! shut the fuck up and take the insult like your kind have insulted me! paybacks a bitch. 

fuck that„ im not going to take your shit. i dont give a shit that your trans, thats definitely no that issue here, you’re just an asshole. 

please never message me again. i apologized and you just made fun of me and told me to shut the fuck up. so goodbye. im ignoring you on here. i hope you realize you cant be a dick to random people. 

go ahead and fear for the trans people i support, they know im not transphobic.  and im not just okay with trans people. i fully support trans people and i see them as a normal person. im completely fine with trans people, sorry i didnt word that good enough. im 100000% super good with trans people. is that better? i said im okay with trans people after 50 posts showing my full support for them, i just got tired of saying the same thing over and over again, i assumed you’d know by then. trans people are able to run for congress. they can go run for congress, or president, but if people arent electing them into congress or presidency than they arent going to be there, and thats because we live in a country where you need to vote. so if there are still transphobic people you need to get them to understand transsexuals we are growing as a country and it has been way more accepting now than it has ever been for trans people, and i hope that sometime soon things get way better for them. ive related this to homosexuality already, but there are now gay politicians and there will be trans politicians, and there could be some now that arent out, and when we have openly trans politicians, we will still need american to come together as a whole to accept trans people. politicians cannot make laws on their own to help get equality for trans people. you need to get the whole country to learn acceptance and to understand. the trans community needs to get the country to realize they are being stupid and ignorant and get them to understand and accept trans people. and when the country starts to, you will have cis gender allies like your friends, and they will want to contribute to help fight to get things passed and to get people to understand and not be dicks. you dont NEED cis people. but there will be cis people who are allies and want to help. and you will need cis people in congress as allies and you need cis people in america as allies to help get bills across to shut down the people who discriminate and wont change their ways. without the allies of straight people in america we could have never gotten gay marriage legal in states because people vote. if they arent allies, meaning dont support, they wont vote. if we didnt make allies with straight people in congress and america, we wouldnt have shot down doma, and thats because we need to have a trial and we need get america to understand it was unconstitutional. thats my opinion on it because thats how i watched it unfold regarding gay people and how things have changed by us gaining so many allies with straight people within congress, musicians, and citizens. and the states who have people who a majority of people not supporting gay people are not our allies and they ban gay marriage and gay people to work in their stores and will beat gay people to death.

and gay people and trans people are not the same. but i feel like the course of action to get america to understand and to make changes in this country and world is slightly the same. that doesnt mean its not fucked up how things are, but its how america is. the federal government cant control states actions and states actions can only go so far if the majority of the state and people who run it are not accepting.

this is all i have ever been saying to you. if this is me talking over you and being an asshole and transphobic than i am truly truly sorry. but i hope you dont treat cis people the way you have treated me because that will get them to hate you and you dont want that because that will not help you get them to help get your human rights backs and be treated fairly. it will not help get people to stop killing trans people. i really hope you’re just a dick to me and not a bunch of other cis people.

i dont think im different or great, never did. 

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transkill:

myheartwillleadtheway:

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cisphobic:

myheartwillleadtheway:

tumblr peeps I’m not allowed to be an ally to Trans people because I said not all cis people are missing Trans people and the ones who are good you should accept as your ally to help fight the fight and help stand up for equality for you.
Since I’m not Trans I’m not allowed to choose to be an…

BEING AN ALLY IS NOT AN IDENTITY HOLY SHIT SHUTUP

STOP WITH THE WHOLE “YOU NEED US” BULLSHIT

NEWSFLASH, WE DONT WANT YOU.

Jesus h Christ and people tell me I have a victim complex when people like this person exist?? grow the fuck up

"take your whiny little cracker ass somewhere else and go be a lesbian somewhere else" and I’m the bad one? That’s not okay man. And why am I a horrible person for accepting a trans person. Fine. I don’t accept them. Whatever. Like I really don’t get it. Why am I bad when they literally told me they hate all cis people that exist and will never care or be friends with them.

your victim complex is growing. of you literally cannot understand why prioritizing for the feelings of allies is wrong, you were never an ally to begin with. shoo now. find some other trans person who will baby your poor “I’m a victim of cisphobia” fee-fees.

Dude. I’m not even playing victim. I’m playing you all are fucked up. Not for being Trans. For being Dicks for no reason. I have no idea why it’s wrong for me think being Trans is okay. I don’t even know why I’m getting yelled at for this.

you’re missing the point.

you’re acting entitled. if you think you deserve some sort of trophy for meeting the minimal requirements of being a decent human being, you’ve got another thing coming for you. being an ally to trans people is more than just “being okay” with trans people existing as you so put it. your entitlement you feel towards the term “ally” clearly shows me that you weren’t much of an ally to begin with.

a true ally wouldn’t whine and victimize themself when told they did something transphobic. they wouldn’t say “oh but I don’t hate trans people!!”. they wouldn’t look at a trans person venting about their oppression and automatically assume they’re talking about them.

guess what! most people dont actively hate trans people! you think the average school teacher is out and about killing trans women and getting away with it? of course fucking not. she’s complacent. she’s ignorant. she let’s ius suffer in silence at the hands of people who do mistreat us. being a true ally doesn’t constitute “being okay with trans people”, it means bucking up, admitting that you were wrong, apologizing, and asking-no, begging for the knowledge of what you can do to help people like us.

Please tell me what I did that was Trans phobic. I literally have no idea. If me telling that person I accept them is Transphobic then I guess I am. I don’t know what I did wrong. Nobody has told me this yet. You told me you don’t want any cis person as an ally and now you say I’m not a true ally. I’m not allowed to be an ally so it doesn’t really matter if I’m a true ally. I cant apologize if I don’t know what I did wrong..I literally have zero idea of what is happening. Im not a victim, I never said I was. What would I be a victim of except someone literally throwing insults at me for my race and sexual orientation. Which I can understand the anger for me being white. Doesn’t excuse being rude, but I get it. But I don’t get why I’m insulted for being a lesbian. I defend Trans people who I know. maybe that doesn’t make me an ally. Maybe me accepting Trans people for who they are doesn’t make me one. But you all are telling me to back off and not associate with any Trans people. I won’t associate with you if.you don’t want me to But I will with the people I know. So like I don’t understand what’s happening I don’t get went I’m not allowed to accept Trans people.

I’m not the one you should be apologizing to. that would be
cisphobic
. go find out from them.

i would if they would listen to me. but if they want me to apologize for saying im an ally because i support them. than im sorry i said im an ally. none the less i still accept trans people, and the people i know who are trans have no issue with me supporting them in their transition and supporting who they are. so since apparently they have different views, i wont say im an ally and wont support them. and honestly, i also deserve an apology from them, not as a cis person who wants an apology from a trans person. as a human being wanting an apology from another human being for saying extremely fucked up things and they know it. if they cant be a decent person and apologize for saying, “take your whiny little cracker ass somewhere else and go be a lesbian somewhere else” than i have zero respect for them as a person. because in no way was that called for and in no way is that acceptable because i deserve it because im white. because they hated on my sexual orientation as well. theres lesbian trans people. do they tell them to be a lesbian somewhere else? its not okay. i have said nothing bad about them to deserve that. why should we teach hate conquers hate, when it doesnt. it just creates more hate.

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myheartwillleadtheway:

i dont want to be in your life. i never wanted to be in the other persons life. if you want to be my friend cool, that wasnt what this was about. i literally just stated how i accept trans people and although many cis people have been horrible, i wouldnt discriminate…

I didn’t literally mean me. I don’t even know you. This person told me.they Don’t believe in cis Allys basically and they basically didn’t want cis people.in their life. You agreed with them. I don’t need to be around you. this all started because I said I accept Trans people. I got told I’m not allowed to be an ally.and not allowed to.accept Trans people. So does that mean if I wanted to.do something to help Trans people I’m not allowed? I’m not forcing myself on anyone. This person told me not to accept tans people because they don’t want me to because I’m cis. I know Trans people who want me around.them so maybe that’s why I’m confused. But I guess every person is different and has a different view. I’m not asking to be Around you though.

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